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Lyndall and Richard

Moving Through Loss with Hope, Love, and Memories

Show #123


Richard Solar and Lyndall Hare, a self described ‘gypsy gerontologist’ join me on this very special program. Lyndall is an Eldercare Coach and an Aging Consultant. She is affiliated with The Respite, A Centre for Grief and Hope, in Charlotte, North Carolina. Richard Solar lost his spouse of 50 years just four months ago, and he graciously agreed to share his thoughts on the loss and recovery process that he is going through. Our hope is that Richard’s sharing of his experience may bring comfort to others who are or will someday be going through a similar experience.

Lyndall brings many years of her experiences working and assisting others with life issues to the program, and she offers her words of wisdom for Richard. This program exemplifies the mission of Radio 4 the Ages, to wit, “…to improve the quality of life of our senior adults by facilitating their ability to stay informed, involved, active and listened to.”

I’d appreciate hearing your reaction to this show, and others we have done, and if you would like to be a guest on one of my shows, please reach out to me.

Thanks for listening and for being a part of my journey through this experience.


Brad Peters1

Human Dignity and Food Insecurity (aka Hunger)

Show #113


Brad Peters, the Executive Director of Everybody Fed was my guest this morning. Brad and his team of volunteers are dedicated to feeding some of the less fortunate children and adults in Africa (Kenya and Uganda). Brad tells his story of taking a look at his life, which was mostly consumed with becoming a successful salesman and providing for his family’s financial needs. He realized one day a while back that maybe there was a higher purpose for his time here on earth. This thought kind of hit him squarely between the eyes one day when his youngest son said Dad was a money making machine! And Brad realized that he wanted to do more than make money; that he wanted to find a way to improve the lives of others. Thus the idea for Everybody Fed was born. And Brad has also had the joy of working with a team that has brought water wells to communities in Africa. Imagine the thrill of having running water coming from a pump right in the center of your village, for the first time in your life! The villagers were singing and dancing when the drilling team first started. You can see the videos and photos of the villagers at

Please take the time to listen to Brad’s story, told here on Radio 4 the Ages, in a modest and common man style. And if you feel the need to get involved, jump right in!

-thnx, david

j tullis, l dawalt, d edwards

The Circle of Life and the End Game!

Show #109


Jillian Tullis, Ph.D. in the Communications Department at UNC Charlotte, Larry Dawalt, Director of Spiritual and Grief Care Services for Hospice and Palliative Care Charlotte Region, and Donny Edwards, a resident Chaplain at Greenville Memorial Hospital in Greenville, SC were all with me in the studio today.

This show grew out of my interest in conversations around death and dying; how we feel about the end part of life, why some folks openly discuss the ‘end game’ while others avoid the conversation at all cost. I was fortunate to attend a version of a Death Cafe in Charlotte in November at The Respite, a Center for Grief and Hope. Jillian Tullis was one of the organizers of the event and the moderator in my group. The world works in wondrous ways at times. Jillian had been recommended to me for a show by my good friend Dena Shenk, Ph.D. the director of the Gerontology program at UNCC, and here Jillian was right in front of me. So I asked, and Dr. Tullis kindly accepted, along with Larry Dawalt, who happened to be seated next to me at the gathering. Larry had joined me in studio a few times before, and with his background with hospice care and his interest in the topic, I knew that he would only add to making this show one ‘for the ages’!  And as fate would have it, my son-in-law, Donny Edwards and my daughter Rachel were traveling to Charlotte for the weekend, so with Donny a chaplain at a major hospital, he was the perfect addition to an already formidable lineup.

This show is uplifting, honest, and a must hear for all who embrace the full experience of life. I would recommend it for any of your loved ones who may be opposed to any conversation around the topics of death and dying.

Thanks for being a part of my journey with Radio 4 the Ages. -david